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Veni, Vidi, Vici: Latin for ‘I came, I saw, I conquered’.

Module 1 · Lesson 3 of 5

What Gets in the Way of Changing Your Mind?

The lesson

When a belief becomes who you are, changing your mind can feel like losing yourself.

A challenge to such a belief can feel personal, so it is easy to defend it instead of testing it. Told the route you swear by is slower, you may list its good points before checking a map. The question worth keeping: 'Am I defending this view, or testing it?'

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A marble statue raising a phone that glows red like a shield. When a belief becomes who you are, changing your mind can feel like losing yourself.
Three habits, one alternative, and what the studies found.

The idea

  1. The organisational psychologist Adam Grant wrote Think Again, a book about changing your mind. He argues that the ability to rethink may matter more than raw intelligence. He describes three habits from a 2002 paper by the psychologist Philip Tetlock. A preacher defends beliefs held sacred; a prosecutor tries to prove the other side wrong; a politician campaigns for approval. Grant suggests a fourth: the scientist, who treats an opinion as a hypothesis, a guess you test.

  2. The book's publisher sums up one idea: being good at thinking can make us worse at rethinking. In a 2017 study, people best with numbers read data about a skin-rash treatment more accurately. Then the same data were about a gun-control ban, a topic that divides people politically. Among people best with numbers, the split between political sides did not shrink; instead, it grew. Yet two large attempts to repeat it did not find good evidence that skill with numbers makes people more one-sided.

  3. A challenge can also feel personal. In a 2014 review, Geoffrey Cohen and David Sherman write about our sense of being an adequate person. Threats to it, they write, stir up stress and self-protective defences. In a large 1996 review of feedback studies, the authors found feedback threatening self-esteem did less to help performance.

  4. Self-affirmation theory says we want to see ourselves as moral, competent and in control. Its exercises typically have people write about core personal values. Across 144 tests with health warnings, these had small but reliable effects on accepting the message. But a large 2017 attempt to repeat an earlier school study found no evidence of an effect on school results.

Something you wear, or something you are?

In other words

Think of a view as a coat you wear, not your own skin. A coat comes off easily when the weather changes. But a coat you never take off starts to feel like skin; then any tug on it hurts, and you pull away.

A small marble child shielding a drawing of a horse with five legs. Explain like I'm 5: you shout no before you even look.

Ever defended a drawing before looking at it?

Explain like I’m 5

A friend says the horse you drew has five legs. You shout 'No it hasn't!' before you even look. Then you count, and there are five.

Three moves, from defending to testing.

How it applies

Applying it comes down to three moves. The first is noticing the urge to defend. Next is naming the habit that kicked in, whether preacher, prosecutor or politician. Last is holding the view as a hypothesis, and asking what would change it. The view may still turn out right; the point is that it gets tested.

Three moves: Noticing the urge to defend; Naming the habit that kicked in; Asking what would change it 1 Noticing the urge to defend 2 Naming the habit that kickedin 3 Asking what would change it
Three moves · Drawing: Hacks Vitae

Two ways to hold a view.

Defending a view vs testing it

ComparedDefendingTesting
Like aPreacher, prosecutor or politicianScientist
The opinion isSomething to protect, prove or win approval forA hypothesis: a guess you test
When the evidence changesSomething other than evidence decidesThe view is updated

Naming the habit as it happens is our suggestion, not a technique anyone has tested.

Three rows: does the evidence support this belief, is their argument any good, what is true here, each with its easier question.
Each habit swaps in an easier question.

If… then…

Examples (ours)

  • If the real question is 'Does the evidence support this belief?', the preacher's question that slips in is often 'How do I protect it?'
  • If the real question is 'Is their argument any good?', the prosecutor's question that slips in is often 'How do I prove them wrong?'
  • If the real question is 'What is true here?', the politician's question that slips in is often 'What will people like to hear?'
A statue at a crossroads with a phone. Told the route you swear by is slower, you list its good points before checking a map.
Work, home and friends.

Where you’ll see it

Everyday examples (ours)

  • At work: a better method suggested by a newer colleague can be easy to wave away.
  • At home: "You always forget" can turn a talk about one missed bill into a talk about who you are.
  • With friends: losing an argument about a film can sting more than the film deserves.
Three panels: a sting as if the comment were about you, looking only for flaws in the other side, thinking about who is watching.

It feels like thinking. It may be guarding.

Signs it’s happening

  • A sting, as if the comment were about you, not the idea.
  • Looking only for flaws in the other side's case.
  • Thinking about who is watching more than about what is true.
A tavern table. Told the restaurant has bad reviews: list its best dishes, or read the reviews and keep the booking.
Same dinner plan, two ways to meet a doubt.

Before and after

Example (ours)

A friend says the restaurant you picked has had bad reviews.

The quick answer

You list its best dishes and the night you loved it there. The reviews go unread.

The second look

You read the reviews and find the complaints are about slow service. You keep the booking anyway.

A burned hillside at dusk with an old shovel and axe. The Mann Gulch fire, 1949: like a tool, a view helps until things change.
A fire, a foreman, and an escape fire.

Example from history: The Mann Gulch fire, 1949

  • Adam Grant opens Think Again with a true story, the Mann Gulch fire. It broke out on 5 August 1949 on the Helena National Forest in Montana, in the US.
  • The fire overtook a crew of firefighters. The foreman, Wagner Dodge, ordered the men to drop their equipment.
  • Then he stopped to light a small escape fire, a patch burned so the main fire would pass it by. He directed the men into it, but the rest kept running uphill.
  • Of the sixteen men there, only Dodge and two others, who sheltered in a crevice, survived. The fire killed 13 firefighters.
  • Grant uses the story as a picture. Firefighters carry axes and shovels; he says we all carry tools of the mind too.
Our framing

This is a picture, not a verdict on the crew. Our reading: like a tool, a view helps until things change. Then it can be hard to put down.

Two words worth knowing.

Key terms

self-affirmation theory
The idea that people want to see themselves as moral, competent and in control, and feel uncomfortable when that self-view is challenged; affirming another part of themselves can ease it. Glossary →
self-esteem
How positively you see your own qualities and characteristics overall. Glossary →
Quick check3 questions · nothing is saved

1. In Adam Grant's picture, which habit treats an opinion as a hypothesis to test?

2. What did two large attempts to repeat the 2017 study find?

3. At Mann Gulch, what did the foreman, Wagner Dodge, do?

For more: the research behind it

Optional. Everything above stands on its own; these are the full articles, with every source.

Grant's scientist holds a view as a guess to test. The other three habits guard it. Free course at hacksvitae.com.

The scientist's way, in one line.

In one line

Grant's scientist holds a view as a guess to test. The other three habits guard it.

Which belief of yours would you defend before testing it, and what would it take to change your mind?

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