Core values
Three short steps: pick the values that feel most like you, narrow them down, then put the top three into your own words.
Which of these feel most like you?
Go with your first reaction. There are no right or wrong picks. Choose up to 10.
Which five matter most?
If you could keep only five, which would they be?
Put them in order
Move the one that matters most to the top. For your top three, write a line on what each means to you in practice.
Core values: what it is and how to use it
Your core values are the few things you most want your choices to follow, put in your own words. This free core values finder has you pick up to 10 from a list of plain words, narrow them to 5, then rank your top 3 and write what each means to you in practice. It runs in your browser and keeps your picks on your device.
Where the idea comes from, and what the research looked at
In The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (1989), Stephen Covey's second habit is to begin with the end in mind, and the tool FranklinCovey points to for it is a personal mission statement, which it compares to "writing our own personal constitution".
Psychologists have studied a related exercise under the name self-affirmation. Cohen and Sherman write that these exercises "typically have people write about core personal values". In many experiments, writing briefly about a value made hard messages a little easier to accept; a large replication in schools found no effect on school results.
This tool is a reflection exercise, not one of those experiments, and the list of words is ours; any value you add counts just as much. Our guide to taking criticism without getting defensive looks at the self-affirmation studies more closely.
How to use it
- Pick up to 10 values that feel most like you. Go with your first reaction, and type in your own word if one is missing.
- Narrow them to the five you would keep if you could keep only five.
- Put the five in order, with the one that matters most at the top.
- For your top three, write a line on what each means to you in practice.
- Copy or print the result. Doing it again in a few months shows what has moved.
An example
Say you end up with Family, Honesty, Learning, Health and Calm, and Honesty comes first. Next to it you might write: "I say when I don't know something, at work and at home." A line like that is easier to act on than the word on its own.
Questions people ask
What are core values?
They are the few things you most want your choices to follow, such as honesty, family or learning. Which ones count as yours is up to you.
How many core values should I have?
There is no set number. This tool narrows the list to five and asks you to put the top three into words, which keeps it short enough to remember.
Is there research on writing about your values?
Yes, under the name self-affirmation. In many experiments, writing briefly about a value made hard messages a little easier to accept, but a large replication in schools found no effect on school results.
Do core values change over time?
Your picks may shift as your life does. Repeating the exercise now and then, and comparing the lists, is one way to notice it.
Read more
- The 7 Habits summary: the key ideas and what holds up
- How to take criticism without getting defensive
- What makes a good life?
- Wheel of life (free tool)
Sources
- FranklinCovey, Habit 2: Begin with the end in mind (opens in a new tab)
- Cohen & Sherman (2014), The psychology of change: self-affirmation and social psychological intervention, Annual Review of Psychology (opens in a new tab)
- Epton et al. (2015), The impact of self-affirmation on health-behavior change: a meta-analysis, Health Psychology (opens in a new tab)
- Hanselman et al. (2017), New evidence on self-affirmation effects and theorized sources of heterogeneity from large-scale replications, Journal of Educational Psychology (opens in a new tab)
Your picks and notes are kept in this browser only and are never sent to us. Clearing your browser data or using a private window removes them, so copy your result if you want to keep it.
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